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发表于 2004-12-15 00:44:20
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Many friends have argued vehemently with me on if there exits love at first sight. Some believe while others do not believe it at all. Due to the complexity of the real characteristics of human beings, opponents think people should pay more time to know others, to know whether or not they can get along well, therefore, there can not exit real love at first sight. Approvers think that, sometimes they are the right ones in the fairy, we have to believe it if there do exit some such cases.
Sure enough everyone has his own reasons no matter he\she believe or does not believe, and it is difficult for us to tell who is right and who is wrong. Although there are few such cases in the reality, it does not follow that we should not believe it. Maybe this would arouse tons of heckling voices: why you or he can not get love at first sight? There should be more real lovers when they met at the first sight!
What’s wrong?
Almost everyone has a psudo-figure(how it looks and what it should be etc.) in his\her heart when he or she grows up, say, pre-lover, we call it template. When he\she begins to date they would compare the counterparty with the template, if they are almost the same , love at first sight happens. i’m sure that many friends have said “no” to themselves at the first sight when they meet the counterparty, why? The template and the counterparty differ too much!
What if we meet a counterparty who neither differs nor equals with our templates? HeHe, I call it love at second or third sight, and this is the popular situation we meet. When two person can not attract each other too much, but they can find each other some good virtues, then they keep in touch and get along, finally, they may get married.
Love at first sight seems to be the privilege of beauties and handsomes in fairytales and stories, and it does happen among them easily in reality due to their good-lookings and gentle dispositions. But it can also happen among the one who can find some striking virtues among its counterparty, imagining that how pretty jiangqing was shocked when she saw our great chairman Mao in yan’an! Sometimes, love is mysterious, lover is always the most beautiful one in the lover’s eyes.
Paradoxically, I’m still single while all my friends have got married. almost at every wedding ceremony, some friends would ask me: man, have you got your love at first sight yet? That time, I would shout proudly: the enemy is not emerging, but I’ll wait. |
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